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A husband’s to do list….. November 9, 2012

Filed under: Uncategorized — Kerbear @ 3:02 pm

(written from a wife’s prespective)

Respect– (including in front of others) Also, we really love when you open the door for me.
Conversation– (more than 15min) Don’t let your conversations with your wife dwindle to nothing but talk about our kids, your job, & the weather.
Listen well– It’s really disheartening for us to share my thoughts & feelings with someone & then realize they didn’t actually listen. We want you to not only listen with your ears, but to listen with your heart.
Sharing– Household & raising our children responsibilities Chores & child care are not a wife’s sole responsibility. We shouldn’t have to ask you to do your share around the house.
A day off now & then– This means that we will be free from worrying about what is happening with the kids, the house, & you. We deserve a break. We need you to provide this for us, so we can be emotionally & physically healthy.
Commitment to take care of yourself both physically & emotionally- You are notorious for not taking care of yourself when it comes to health issues. This isn’t fair to us. A wife is your lover, not your mother. Please, take responsibility for your own health concerns.
Willingness to make time for me & the kids- Having quality time with your wife & the kids isn’t something that just happens. You have to make it happen by not only making the plans, but by following through. Time with us has to be a high priority for you.
Praise me- (in front of others)
Compassion/forgiveness toward others- (this includes our kids) We often feel we have to go behind you & edify
Faithful– We need to know & feel that I am the ONLY one.
 Try to be understanding of our moods, attitude, feelings, values, likes, & dislikes- Respect our opinions, instead of trying to press us to see things your way.
A shoulder– We need to know that it is okay to cry on your shoulder when we are upset.
 At least every 2 days (no longer than a week)


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